Churlish.

Like how the captain is supposed to be the last to evacuate his ship in the event of a disaster, or a mob boss is supposed to grant any favor asked of him on the day of his daughter's wedding, etc.
I think with those unspoken rules this should be included: tan guys with ponytails can't give you attitude. No one takes them seriously anyway, they just come off as some hammy Italian bouncer stereotype who has an internet girlfriend. It's an agonizing combination of obnoxious and sad.